You should get therapy instead of trauma posting on lemmy. You have growing you need to do.

I also know a lot of men who aren’t affected by it in this way. If you can’t get over the “all men” rhetoric, you’re high-key too sensitive. And I’m really fucking sensitive.

1. I’m not engaging with this argument about constructive criticism. Welcome to the internet. Hope you can get used to it.

2. Getting upset and threatening to leave and take your toys with you. That is what you did. Nobody (in the royal/aggregate sense, not the literal sense) gaf.

3. I mean, no, they literally didn’t aim it at you, and they also literally did not admit to doing so.

I would, personally, rather you stop posting, since your behaviour just kinda seems to be “unable to handle the pressures of the internet” to the point of causing and escalating non-issues to inflammatory arguments.

Unfortunately it sounds to me like you are too sensitive to be a regular poster in any community, if an offhanded half-joking comment that wasn’t even aimed at you is offending you to this degree.