I’d say private, not unlisted.

I like technology quite a lot and in general I’m not afraid to “get my hands dirty.” I host my own instance of a few things, like homeassistant. That said, there’s really something to be said about the simplicity of a prebuilt. I have a synology that was as simple as can be and I kind of love that.

Would have to be on the beefier end of synology boxes, in my experience my 220+ has not been great for 4k. Perfectly fine for less than that though. So maybe you wouldn’t have to step up much.